When I observe, in high of mine the 40 years of age, the innumerable marriages that do not give certain, I I search in the beginning of the relation (of them) to the reply for everything. The examples of couples that do not finish its unions well, in many cases are many turn war. Passion with love joins. Emotion is thing passenger. Love is something serious, exists an emotional structure all capable one to surpass ' ' terremotos' '. Recently vi a known couple young e, did not last one year the marriage, therefore the focus was the fame of it and clearly, much money. Purchases in the Europe, etc, in this half time the youngster was photographed to the eyes of the world in acts that had shaken its image, who little if shook was the young woman in question and its parents, generally the Mother, that functions as being the cerebral part. In other cases they start with the future pregnant wife. Everything can be foreseen, it is enough that the couple has discernment and knows that marriage was made for life all, and that it is not a stock market, son is not an action of stock market! It is necessary alone to hear, to read and to learn with who made and make success, therefore the formula for the failure of the union all already we know, since the examples do not lack. Everything is in the principle.